SIGH okay i’ll stop being a brat here’s more dirk/jake
There is no ideal amount of sex you Should or Shouldn’t be having.
If you’re preoccupied with how much sex you “should” be having, or how much sex is “normal,” you’re making a mistake. There is no ideal, recommended amount and it doesn’t matter. Stop worrying about how much sex you think everyone else is having and focus on your own relationship. How much sex will keep you both fulfilled? That’s all that matters.